These are the moments I thank God that I'm alive, These are the moments I'll remember all my life, I found all I've waited for and I could not ask for more.
As the LSS- craze continues, most people try re-inventing or should I say spoofed? Lol. Manny Villar’s Naging Mahirap and posted it on YOUTUBE. Here are some for you to have fun with. Geesh! The world is busy singing along with this song. Happy viewing!
MV’s Naging Mahirap (Ragnarok Online Version)
For those playing Ragnarok Online, I think you could relate to this one.
Thanks to Shobz^_^ of New Chaos server for posting this on You tube.
MV’s Naging Mahirap (Chipmunks Version)
Who else would do a revival? The Chipmunks of course! Nice picture compilation.
MV’s Naging Mahirap (Vocaloid Version)
Even the Yamaha vocaloid mascots’ Miku, Rin and Len can’t even resist the temptation. *just.kidding*
GMA 7’s Bubble Gang Version - Johnny Billar
3 kinds of version from my favorite gag show.
MV’s Naging Mahirap (Parodial Animation)
Animation nation. Way to go!
A Spoof from Youtube
Pictures do tell lot of stories. Lol.
That’s all for now, folks.
I do not intend to violate anything by uploading these videos. I only intend to share my ideas and for viewing purposes only. Please do not take this as a political insult. Just for laughs.
Upon thinking of what to post, I come to stumble this good read at http://urbanprincessdiaries.blogspot.com/2008/04/of-saving-life-and-love-lessons-from.html I am not really a fan of Grey’s Anatomy or any medical related series because I thought they were boring (no offense) but after reading this article, I was convinced that it’s worth the usual routine of sitting-down-the-couch-all-day-watching-series-non-stop.
By the way, Thanks Ms. Andrea Galinato for posting this.
LESSONS FROM GREY'S ANATOMY:
The Hard Lessons on Love and Men...
1. A man won't let go if he really loves you. Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have one. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past. Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn't guard him enough or you didn't make him happy enough.
4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn't have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules. Set your limits on how far you'd go for a guy. It's perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it's worth it..And it's worth it if the guy is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don't be scared that he'll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy. It's a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it's the guy who's calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it's a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).
8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don't lose hope. Don't settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says it's just the way he really is. He's not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.
9. Always be the only one, no matter what. Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can't get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can't leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.
10. He must respect you. No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.
11. If he fooled you, end it. Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.
12. Never start a relationship the wrong way. Do not steal another girl's man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on there bound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.
13. Do not force yourself into a relationship. Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn't come yet..Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc..If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.
14. Do not settle. If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.
15. A relationship has to have love. Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.
16. Don't be afraid to be single. It's fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.
17. Be a good girl. Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years) . If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.
18. Love without limits. Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn't give your all, you get hurt for nothing.
19. You will get over him. Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.
20. Be the one. Act like you are the one. Don't be a nagger. Don't hinder his gimmicks. Don't give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don't be easy. Don't be like every other girl he had in his life.
Go ahead, Enjoy your life. The best things in life are free.
“Faith is not necessary when you know how things are going to work out, - that's knowledge. It's in the time of unknowing that having faith is what sees you through to the other side. Faith is what gives you strength. Faith is that light in your heart that keeps on shining even when it's all darkness outside.”
I shared this post through friendster centuries ago. lol. Thought of posting it here for the world to see and relate with. Reading this article opened my horizons to non-fairytale kinda love and was really worth my time. Hope all of us guys would enjoy reading this as much as I did and would learn something outta it.
-Hazel ♥
FALLING IN LOVE…
Don’t worry, this ain’t cheesy…
(Debunking the Myths That Are Driving You Crazy)
By: Bo Sanchez
This article isn’t for teenagers only.
Falling in love happens to the young and the not-so-young. (Did you see 42-year-old Tom Cruise jump up and down Oprah’s couch because of Katie?). It happens to everyone. Fat, thin, tall, short, intelligent, uneducated, holy, not so holy, dark, white, yellow, green… it doesn’t really matter. All of us fall in love. And we get stuck in myths that drive us absolutely crazy. My goal is to debunk these myths and convince you not to believe in them. Let’s begin…
MYTH 1: LOVE WILL CONQUER ALL
Let me qualify.
This is such a tricky myth. Because love will conquer all.
But love -- as defined by glazed-eyed lovers -- will not.
If you believe in this myth, you might do the following:
You overlook major obstacles in your relationship.
Everyone you know is wondering why you chose that creature from outer space as your boyfriend. Your best friends are telling you to get rid of him. Your family is telling you to throw him out of a running vehicle. Aling Rosa of the sari-sari store across the street is telling you to lace his drink with poison.
But you won’t --- because you’re in love. That’s why there are songs entitled, "you and me against the world". Your best buds comment, ‘but he’s been jobless for the past three years!". And you say, "He’s free-spirited. He feels boxed in when he’s in the office. ‘(In other words, he’s undisciplined, lazy bum.) Your officemates say, ‘He flirts with other women constantly!’ and you say, ‘No, he’s just friendly.’ (In other words, he’s a pervert). Your cousins say, ‘He’s taking drugs, He’s got needle marks all over his arm. And you say, ‘No, he’s into cross stitching.’
You overstay in toxic relationships, believing that your love will change him.
The wedding doesn’t transform anyone. Even if three popes officiate the wedding. The person you’ll march with into the church will be the same person you’ll march with out of the church. He doesn’t change one bit.
In fact, the marriage makes the hidden more obvious. If he was selfish before he got married, he will be even more selfish after the wedding. If he was hypercritical before he got married, he’ll even be more vile and prolific with his criticisms after wedding.
Here’s the truth: You need more than feelings of love to make a relationship work. You need mature character, total commitment and a minimum level of compatibility.
Especially compatibility in the area of values and mission in life. I hear people say, ‘We’re compatible. Our names begin with the same letter J. My name is Julie and his name is Julio. We’re both born in July."
Wow. That’s so deep, I want to cry.
MYTH 2: WHEN IT’S TRUE LOVE YOU WILL KNOW THE MOMENT YOU MEET THE OTHER PERSON
I’m sure you’ve had this experience before. You are in a crowded room. You’re surrounded by boring, noisy chatter when, suddenly, this gorgeous guy enters the door. Your eyes meet. Instantly, time stands still. The universe grinds to a halt. Except for this attractive man in front of you, everything in your vision becomes a giant blur. The hubbub of the crowd becomes a soft muffle and, from out of nowhere, you here gentle violin music from the background. One week later, he’s your boyfriend. A few weeks later, you discover that your boyfriend’s a pathological liar, buried in credit card debt, borrows money from all his girlfriends (you’re his eight in six months). Your mind says, ‘Dump him’. Your heart says, ‘But it was love at first sight!’
Here are the consequences…
You become so focused on the magical first moment,
you become blind to the dark side of the relationship.
Six out of seven days, you’re fighting with your boyfriend. But you can’t give him up because you met each other in such a magical moment. Your car keys fell and he picked it up, and then your eyes met, you smelled his deodorant, and you dropped your keys again ……How can you not be meant for each other?
You become a love-at-first- sight junkie that you could miss out on the ‘real thing’.
One intelligent woman told me, ‘Bo, there’s this guy who’s courting me. He’s okay. He’s kind, he’s responsible, and he has a good job "I could hear a ‘but’ coming," I said. ‘but there are no sparks!" she bit her lip. "No violin music playing in the background huh". "None. When I see him, the background music I hear is lululalu-lalulalula lei… "Listen. You don’t need a magical first moment to meet our potential husband. The important things are mature character, financial responsibility, ability for commitment, compatible missionand values… I actually met this girl again on her wedding, and before she marched down the aisle, she whispered to me, "Do you hear the violin music, Bo? It’s loud and clear." It doesn’t have to be love at first sight. In fact, marriages with the least adjustments are those between friends who’ve known each other for years before they realize that they’re good marriage material. What is love at first sight? Many times, it’s lust at first sight. Or infatuation at first sight. Don’t give it too much weight.
Here’s the truth: it takes a moment to experience infatuation but true love takes a lifetime.
MYTH 3: IF IT IS TRUE LOVE YOU WILL FEEL THIS WAY FOR EACH OTHER FOREVER
No, you won’t. Here are the consequences for believing this myth:
You panic when the feelings wane, and wonder whether the marriage is over and whether you really loved one another in the first place. Imagine the night of your honeymoon. Your new bride is sleeping. The cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. You gaze at her lovely face. You study her soft cheeks. Her long eyelashes. Her beautiful nose, her parted red lips. And all of a sudden, she snores.
"Ngggggggooork"
How do you react? Because it’s your honeymoon, you say, ‘How cute.’
Six months down the road, the same scene transpires. Your wife is sleeping. And the same cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. And you hear her snore. "Ngggggoork. "
What do you say?
"Ssssssheeeesh, Honey! You sound like a boat!’
What has happened? The feelings have gone. Let me say this: ‘That’s normal. It happens to everyone. But it doesn’t mean your love is gone so don’t panic! You can make a decision to love the snoring boat.
You start blaming your partner for the loss of love. This is nutty. But many people do it: when we don’t feel in love, we think it’s the fault of the other person. And so we fight him. Again, we fall out of love because we’re human beings. It’s nobody’s fault. The moment you fall out of love, the real work begins. Let me explain. This is the most important point I’m going to make. (I got this from Scott Peck in his bestseller book, The Road Less traveled)
Falling in love isn’t love
Here’s why. When you fall in love…..
a. No decision is required. Falling in love just happens.
b. No effort is required. Falling in love is like…. Well, falling.
c. No hard work is required. Falling in love is being bitten by the love bug.
On the other hand, true love requires all three:
Decision, effort and lots of hard work. In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen.
Sure, true love can only happen after you’ve fallen out of love.
When you begin choosing to love, even if you don’t feel like doing it —- that’s true love. And that’s the foundation of a lasting marriage.
MYTH 4: YOUR PARTNER WILL FULFILL YOU COMPLETELY
Again because falling in love satisfied you completely -- you want the same satisfaction to last. No it won’t. Consequence? You might fail to recognize a good relationship because your partner isn’t fulfilling the needs you should be fulfilling yourself.
Here’s the truth: the right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of them.
There are just some things your husband can’t give you: you’re self-worth. Your spirituality. Your inner happiness. These are things you have to work on your own.
I’ve met lots of people who think they’re dissatisfied with their marriage. In reality, they’re dissatisfied with themselves. I’ve met lots of people who think they’re bored with their marriages. And they complain to the high heavens how boring their husband or wife is —- when in truth, they’re really bored with life. Meet your own needs. Find your happiness in God. Find your niche, your calling, your destiny. And then share your joy with your spouse.
MYTH 5: IF IT’S TRUE LOVEYOU WON’T BE ATTRACTED TO ANYONE ELSE
If you believe in this myth, you panic when you getattracted to someone else, questioning the authenticity of your love for your spouse.
One man told me, ‘Bo, I love my wife. Or I thought I did. But then I met this woman at work. She has nice make-up. She smells nice. She wears a pencil-cut skirt. When I go home, my wife is wearing a drab rag. Her hair is undone. She smells of vinegar. Gosh I am attracted to this girl at work."
Being attracted to someone is normal -- even if you have a happy marriage. But being attracted doesn’t mean falling into adultery.
Every time you think of the other woman, discipline your heart and say, ‘Home, boy, Home!’ and escort your heart back to your wife. Because if you feed your attraction with fantasies and constantly think about theother woman, it grows.But if you starve your attraction, it dies a natural death.
